Bobby and I went to Macy’s and started our wedding registry. I felt like he was rushing me but the woman who assisted us was very helpful and gave Bobby the scanner. This made him feel as though he was in control. To my surprise, he didn’t complain too much but when it was time to go he was clearly ready.
We covered most of what I had in mind along with a couple items he suggested. I knew I could go online at another time and update where needed, which I did later. I also registered for a few items at Bed Bath and Beyond. There’s also a great alternative to the traditional registries with honeymoon wishes. It’s a great way to give guests options and the opportunity to help make your honeymoon experience more enjoyable.
My sister/matron of honor has been harassing me for my bridal shower guest list. I know she just wants it now so I’m not trying to figure out when the shower will be but right now I’m finalizing the wedding list. I’ve had to put more names on the “b” list to try and get down to a more reasonable number but will still be over the limit we’d agreed even with responses of those unable to attend. The more I go over the lists the more appealing eloping or a destination wedding becomes. But I’m forced to do what I have to and hope people understand. My advice to future brides, start out with only immediate family and gradually add extended family and friends from there. I read an article that pretty much advised the same things I’ve been doing but just doesn’t make it any easier. I plan to send the invitations out in batches, pulling from the “b” list after I’ve received enough “no” responses that allow room for additional guests. Again, hoping those we can’t invite will understand and plan to share memorable moments and pictures at http://www.forblackweddings.com.
Till next time….
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I am an "April Bride" in Atlanta, GA and I only have 43 days left to go. My bridal & bachelorette parties are next weekend and my in-laws will be flying in for the weekend festivities. I agree with you so much about the guest list. One huge help that made a difference with my guest list is that my parents and siblings offered to pay for their individual guests and my fiance's family helped with his guests as well. Although we both received help, I still had to cut my list. There were so many people that me and my parents' wanted to still invite, but unfortunately, we had to draw the line and say no more. I feel you so much on the destination wedding, it has crossed my mind a few times more! But, we cannot go away or elope...we both decided last year to have a wedding where we both reside and family and friends will have to come to us. I will say that as time draws closer, I do not know what I would have done without my wedding coordinator! Brides, she has worked miracles! She did my flowers, invitations, programs, and sooo much more! She also keeps me from getting to excited about wedding tasks! Thumbs up for all coordinators that work so hard across the globe!
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ReplyDeleteYou don't know how happy you've made the entire family by taking that complaining pain in the a$$ off of our hands. Finally, we've found someone that has the patience to put up with him. It's been a long road, but finally our day of freedom is here! Bobby Free in '09. We initially planned to be Bobby Free in '93....but it took longer than we expected. Anyway, CONGRATS TO BOTH OF YOU, AND WELCOME TO THE FAMILY.
KIM