My Wedding Planner
It was at that point I hired Eulina Morris of Creating Remarkable Events. She understood me. I realized a long time ago that I am not a superwoman and have no desire to be every and anything all the time.
I am a doctoral student who holds a part time job and teaches anywhere for three to five classes. I am beyond busy already, plus I have no clue about a wedding since I wasn't the type who dreamed of how it will look or what I would wear. With my lack of knowledge of weddings, I knew I was entering into an area I was totally unfamiliar.
But I was sure of one thing. I did not want to be the burned out superwoman on my wedding day. And I want my family members to show up beautiful, relaxed and ready to celebrate. Nonetheless, the decision of hiring a wedding planner was not without a fight. I looked at some planners a couple of months ago and thought, "My sister can do that."
My sister, who we call "Pookie Bird" got married three years ago. Everything that you didn't want to happen happened. I figured that anyone who went through the hells she did, could put together a good damn wedding. She had so many opportunities to learn an abundance of lessons I guessed she was a pro after she pulled that one off.
I called Pookie and she was excited and supportive. I gave her the proposal along with a payment of services. Immediately, she was on it---asking me about colors, venues, bridesmaids, and all the particulars that I did not have an answer.
The next week she was combing Los Angeles looking for a venue that was reasonable. But life happened. Her husband was laid off just like she was right after she had their infant daughter. Both of them were casualties of a crumbling Cali economy. Now, she had to really look for a job in between being an active mommy of three, a wife, and a conscious community member. The next items were finding a caterer and securing a hotel, but Pookie's youngest got sick, then she caught a cold, and her car broke down again. Who had time plan a wedding?
I was getting impatient, but I had to understand my sister's situation. Nonetheless, I couldn't neglect mine. So, I started looking for a wedding planner. I had been visiting www.forblackweddings.com and other sites to get an understanding of what I should be looking for. For Black Weddings, gives excellent tips on what to expect in wedding planning from the beginning to the end---from wedding songs to a bridal emergency kit.
I read and read, and honestly, I still didn't know what I wanted or where I was going. I was getting so frustrated I just wanted to call it off and I was just starting. Instead of quitting, I went to research wedding planners. Since Los Angeles has a small black population, we only make up about 4 percent, I wanted to recycle my black dollars so I went to www.blacknla.com and looked at caterers. I emailed and phoned them all.
Eulina was the first one to call. I listened to what she said and wrote notes based on her tips and advice. I spoke to others, but it came down to two potentials, and Eulina's simple statement sealed the deal. Other things that were important was she was budget-friendly, flexible, full of energy, very responsive, and listened to my concerns before I even signed a contract. I feel totally comfortable with my choice and I can't wait to jump into the process again.
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